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About this site…
Hello to all visitors.
on this site is the truth about my life on the Philippines and all the things what can happen on the way to find the luck. This is my story how I came here and what happen.... I am always open for your experience with people you maybe know as well ... I am sure there are a lot......
The Story starts with the truth about Suzette.... and if you like, give me your comment. But please keep respect.
And if you want to contact me: worldsaleauktion@yahoo.com
Matthias
matthias
January 28th, 2009 - 16:52
I started to read the story out of curiosity on what the story all about.
I am at work when I noticed a profile with the linked of a story that
Catches my attention I stopped my work for a while and read the story
To think it’s my first time that I left my work for this story. Huhuhu
It’s a nice story I did not regret that I left my work for the story.
The story has moral lessons. I have my own but many to mention
But here’s one thing I like to share.
Be contented and thankful in every good thing received.
I hope other ladies out there are able to read the story then you can
Find lesson (s) from the story and try to be open minded when you read.
Noted: I just want to say that please other ladies stop doing things like this
Don’t put a dirty thoughts and ideas that other foreigner may think to other
Filipino ladies.
to mat,
thank you for sharing
the story with us.
i hope that you will
have a peaceful mind.
January 28th, 2009 - 20:08
Friend ,you know i always believe you…
take this as an experience..
A very good lesson not only for you but for every body…
I will always be your friend and part of your story..
Weng weng Girls remember!!!!!!!!!!! hehehehe
take care always!!!!!!!!!!!
January 29th, 2009 - 12:23
hi mat,,
the first i saw you…it pretty good you approach me nicely\
i really felt sorry what happen
move on…time come you will be happy ,what you wanted
nice story but it sad,
thanks for sharing this to me,,
take care
January 29th, 2009 - 14:06
Hi there,
I am really sorry about what happened. It’s a pity that a Filipina has hurt you that much.
I wish you luck especially in finding your true match.
January 30th, 2009 - 23:56
Very sad story Matt…:( but Im glad u found out the truth about her soon enough…before u moved further on.
Regards,
Kisa65
February 8th, 2009 - 13:10
hi matthias
hope things are well with you.. your story about suzie has put down again the image of Filipinas-Pinays..I just hope westerners wont generalize how pinays are..Most of us are well-mannered and educated and those who are using their body for money are just a handful..Internet is a crazy way to meet decent people..unless you really go to the right and proper channels of meeting..
Do blog for more adventures and experiences of our beloved country.. Dont be jaded coz of what happened to you.. You will still find that someone..just trust in destiny..
February 17th, 2009 - 01:14
hi matt,
guten tag!
felt sad about what happened to your love life,scheisse passiert!
and (“piep” edit by webmaster) to suzie!sorry if i wrote such word but for me her reasoning is too elementary..move on is the best way..
March 2nd, 2009 - 11:22
hello math, thanks for posting, i read it all just finish. It was very long but interesting. Think that its not your lost, it’s her lost. But remember not all pinays are the same. Hehe have a good day
March 2nd, 2009 - 16:27
Your story is long, i admire you to have that thought of writing it and posting on web, A break up is always hard, but the most important step is to refocus on you! Focus on something that you like to do for you. It might be one thing or many things, old interest or something new, but either way, do it for you.
Pour yourself into these interests. The more time you spend focusing on you, the less time you will spend focusing on your failed relationship. You may also meet new people, and you will definitely feel better about yourself.
Find some good friends. If you already have great friends, then they will definitely help you through this time. Use them. That’s what they are there for. If you don’t already have great friends, find some people with similar interests, and have some fun!
Another important is to cut contact with that woman as much as possible. If it is truly over, don’t torture yourself by continuing see her or talk to her. Understandably, in some situations you are forced to have contact with your ex, but if at all possible, cut them out, and be selfish. Spend the time that you would have spent on them on you. the only things things You’ll Need is patience, perseverance, interest, and great friends.
i feel so sorry about what suzzet did to you, maybe she didnt know the real meaning of attention you have given to her, move on matthias, life is beautiful specially when you are staying in what you call “island of paradise”, Look around and im sure like me you will find the real woman you deserve to have. Good luck in your new life here in Philippines….
March 2nd, 2009 - 16:37
And to Suzzet or suzie, stop playing this kind of games….i know you are not the only one who play like this, you are many but i admire thos pinay who has good heart,pinay are not all the same..
March 11th, 2009 - 22:46
hi thanks for sharing this i think you really deeply person but aside from that may be your funny!!!may be suzie have own reason why she doing this!!i dont say sorry for you!! sorry for suzie i think how much you love her..not easy to move on but i know you can do it!!suzie lost you are only 1 in 10 boys always hurt the girl hehehe!!! wish you that you find the right girl for you!!!but be careful hard to disappoint again,,,have a long life fun!!!
March 13th, 2009 - 00:18
i already know about real mathias before i read this story!!! as your fiend i know and i see in to your eye how much you really love suzzie dispite of evrything she done for you you still hoping she stand and you!! but>>>>>> i know how you are when you inlove and i know you fight for!!! i am waiting and exciting to read the continuation of your story hope have happy ending not for you and suzzie but for the girls who replace the place of suzzien in your heart!!!
March 13th, 2009 - 09:28
Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there…to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be but you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never realize your potential, strength, will power or heart.
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Illness, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test limits of your soul.
Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere; safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet affect your life. The successes and downfalls that you experience can create who you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.
If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but also because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things. Make every day count. Appreciate everything that you possibly can, for you may never experience it again.
Talk to people whom you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to.
Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you. Create your own life and then go out and live it.
Treasure those people who are in your side when you are down, who listen and never left you, they are your angel….
“If you take your eyes off your goals, all you see is obstacles.”
March 29th, 2009 - 15:49
hello matt,
i am the one from DIA im just finish reading your story here about suzzie and the next girl,i really feel sorry about your story i feel ashame cause they are same filipina as me,and i know what u feel when she do that things for you,
its time for you to move-on and to be careful to find the right girl,you need to know the girl first before to fall in love or to trust cause its really hurt when somebody diispoint you what you are expectation.i admire you as a foerigner who fall in love with a filipina,i hope i can put my story here also when i am ready to move-on of it.
March 29th, 2009 - 18:13
alam mo menjie, di mo alam talaga ang storya, ikaw ba makikipag live sa tao di 3 weeks mo pa lang nakilala ha? pwede ba. pag pinay talaga comment agad. siguro buti pa kau na lang ni matt magsama.
March 30th, 2009 - 11:48
hey girls wag kayong ganyan, tama si alma maraming pinay pag kano comments agad at kampi pa sa banyaga, ikaw ba menjie naniniwala sa mga kuwento ni mattthias, bakit magkaibigan ba kayo personaly???? ikaw naman alam bakit ka nag react ikaw yung girl sa kuwento????
March 30th, 2009 - 12:13
hello, thanxs for your comments on my site.. please leave you comments in english, so that everyone can understand it.. thanxs
March 30th, 2009 - 12:20
yes, it was me the girl in the story. u can leave any comment bout me, i dont mind it. to matt, lets just keep the friendship, if you don’t like it then lets just keep it to our memories bout short good times we had.
May 15th, 2009 - 09:14
MATTHIAS, next time you fall for a woman pinay or whatever, look at her face bcos oftentimes (altho not 100%) the character of a person can be viewed thru his/her looks. you have no taste when it comes to beauty LOL that is why they fooled you. some may say don’t judge a book by its cover or looks can deceive but then if one is learned/educated they can make thmselves beautiful both in the outside and inside but since what you had were women of low status meaning they are UNEDUCATED their ugliness in looks leveled with their ugly deeds. get what i mean? take care and beware okay?
May 15th, 2009 - 11:00
To all,
it is not important from were someone comes or were this person is born. In every country exist good and not so good persons. I know not all Philippine women are the same, I never made it here general. Every person is different, and every person has his individual reasons for some situations. I will never stop to believe in the good side of a person it doesn’t matter from where this person comes…. This is my story from my point of view. What you will read out of my story is your personal thing, I respect it. I except that you respect the actors here as well. Some comments makes me sad and thinking if I should continue to tell what happen in my life, but I decide to continue and to public your comments….
Matthias
May 15th, 2009 - 11:49
ok i stand to be corrected i know fully well poor or rich, old or young, ugly or nice in looks there will alwyas be some good traits in both what i meant when i said you have no taste when it comes to beauty was how did you let those kind of women fool you? when she was always playing wiht her mobile it really showed she had lots of textmates whether u knew it or not but knowing she was not focusing on you meant another yet u stick with her as if she was one venus goddess of beauty. i think she was and maybe is a prosti asking money from men after showing her body to them via the net. better you see all the negatives thru our comments so you will not regret finding a better one who is with you right now. good luck am not commenting anymore thanks and bye.
May 15th, 2009 - 12:08
ok to that
May 26th, 2009 - 11:53
you said “I RECEIVED A MSG FROM SUZIE, I DID NOT REPLY” i thought u said u changed your SIM/cel number?
when will you learn how to realize that these women are using you for “free lodging and sex”? it also seems you don’t care if these women do to you ONE DAY SOON what they do to their lovers THAT IS TO HAVE SIDELINES AT THE BACK OF THEIR MEN. they will also do to you what they do to other men. while the cat is away the mouse will surely play for these women
July 3rd, 2009 - 16:57
hi matthew. what are you doing to yourself? catering to the needs of Filipinos you meet along the way? stop it please you are only given the chance to know the “ugly” side of being a Filipino if you give and give and get trash in return. Am telling you Filipinos are really kind, friendly, etc but because of poverty some turn to being opportunists from being hospitable in the start.
why are you here? no job in Germany?
July 28th, 2009 - 18:40
I totally agree to Matthias. It doesn’t matter what race orwhat country you belong. There’s always a good share of good and bad persons everywhere. One key factor is the kind of upbringing parents give to their children.
September 7th, 2009 - 01:34
Можно и довольно серьезно поспорить по этому поводу… А вообще интересно! (It is possible and sufficiently serious to argue in regard to this… But it is generally interesting!)(translated by webmaster)
September 8th, 2009 - 15:33
Мегареспектос! Прочитал с интересом от начала и до конца. (Mega-respect! It read with the interest from the beginning also to the end) (translated from webmaster)
September 8th, 2009 - 15:55
Hello, I am really happy that I have readers from all around the world. I know we all speak different languages. But please, that all can read your comments as well. Please write in English, that everyone can read and understand it. It is also not my native language, but I decided to write my story in English that so most as possible people can read and understand it. Please keep the style and the rule on this side than we understand each other better. Thank you very much to all….
September 10th, 2009 - 15:37
continue your story please Matthias
September 26th, 2009 - 01:22
It is the second entry I read tonight. And I am on my third. Got to think which one is next. Thank you.
September 28th, 2009 - 21:14
Thank you very much for that excellent article
October 24th, 2009 - 09:22
you can make million friend in one hellow but hard to find the real person that you can call your best friend. in this story from the start a friend is here then all readers can give a comment if this person not really friend and she is only a person who can kill the freedom of her friened all people wante to build up a good friendship you can may be learn from here but one thing can sure to build up a freindship is not easy and what ever you nationality is can be a friend areal friend… and always remember the value of friendship is important and the value of one friend is important…. i have no regret that it happend in the first month hurt but now i can say its better and i am really thankful for the girl ho give happiness for my friend all have reason and may be she is one of the instrument to wake me up that hello its over!!!!and see what really my value in my friend i cant say my friend is not a good person he is a good and i can a sure that 100% but life must goon dream never die but friendship can die.. hope all reader can get lesson from here in our story!!!!! if i am reader only may be i ask first why she is run read firts the time she come in to the life of her freind then comment….but not to give simphty to the author or to the fiend.. jut from the bottom of your hearth that may be not good non respect but may be its help that maybe your point af view can help us also….. thats why i give comment i want to ignore but i think its exciting to give and read all comment thank to all readers!!!
March 2nd, 2010 - 10:39
Thank you! You often write very interesting articles. You improved my mood.
March 6th, 2010 - 05:08
I read a few topics. I respect your work and added blog to favorites.
March 11th, 2010 - 12:47
In truth, immediately i didn’t understand the essence. But after re-reading all at once became clear.
March 11th, 2010 - 14:46
Excellent article, I will take note. Many thanks for the story!
June 15th, 2010 - 18:27
Hello! Thank you very much for that enlightening article